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Beyond fear itself: a healthy relationship with fear
Fear is a powerful part of life. Fear is a powerful word and a powerful emotional experience. It is a powerful motivator as well as an instrument of power, including in human social groups.
2) pretend it does not exist
5) hysterically defend it (justify it)
Finally, this brings up to a new way of relating to fear:
Fear is a normal part of human experience. Accept it. Value it. Explore it.
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